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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year, he is 19 and he's been having sex since 14, but I'm still a virgin despite being 17 and he keeps telling me that he's without it for a really long time and that he needs it. Sometimes he even makes it seem that I love him less because I don't want sex. One day his best friend suggested an open relationship until I was ready and he actually considered it (he sent me what his friend said and was all like: I told you that it isn't normal) and I was really hurt. Now I'm scared that he might be cheating on me because one day he told me that a friend of his was a lesbian and later on I discovered that she isn't (and is single right now), he's been working late, cancels plans with me because of work, stops texting me out of nowhere sometimes for hours and a lot of times when I open snapchat to look at the GPS (I have a really boring life and lots of free time) he's not where he tells me he is.
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Hi Anon
Thank you for writing.
Stay true to you - this idiot boyfriend of yours is trying to blackmail/force you into having sex by playing mind games.
"If you don't have sex with me, I'll have sex with somebody else."
"I have needs. You're being selfish by not meeting them."
Anon, tell him what to do with his needs. Dump him like the loser he is. You are still a minor - not yet a legal adult. He's a disgusting person to do this to you and so is his friend. You are so much better than this. In 6 months you won't even think about this guy - and he will be on to the next poor girl. Keep your dignity and self-worth and break it off.
October 31, 2017 - 2:39pmBest,
Susan
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