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Hi, I'm 23 years old lady and I'm still a virgin. I have a bf and we've been together for more than 4 years. We never had 'real' penetration or sexual intercourse (saving it for the marriage). But today we made out and he only put his tip into me (only like half an inch to an inch) but did not cum in me. I am just a little concerned and went online to search for answers, and some people even mentioned that with what i've done, i'm actually not a virgin anymore! but no pain no blood flow happened.
Anyway, my question is, will i get pregnant this way? isit really true that if sperm was only near the vagina, i will get pregnant?
only supportive and real answers please.. i know i shud've used contraception, but it was our first time, and we didn't really planned for it to happen.
thanks..
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You being a virgin doesn't change the fact that his penis was in your vagina, just not fully penetrating it. Virginity is one of those things defined differently by everyone...If you were to ask 5 people to define a Virgin, you may get 5 different responses.
You are correct, sperm can live inside of your body for up to 1 week, taking your chances and assuming that you are not fertile is not a very responsible thing to do, however. Women are all different, some women have conceived during their periods and there is no safe time of the month to have unprotected sex.
The point I'm trying to make with you is that yes, your chances of being pregnant may not be as likely as someone who has just had full penetration during the middle of her cycle but you cannot perform sexual activities irresponsibly. Eventually they may lead to an unwanted pregnancy.
Good Luck,
Rosa
November 17, 2011 - 6:01amThis Comment
Does it matter if im a virgin? I've heard its less likely to get pregnant then.
November 16, 2011 - 6:25pmAnd sperm only live in your body for up to 4-5 days MAX. It was the 5th day of my period when we were together, so doesn't that leave a few days until i am in my "fertile" days? (or when my egg is released)?
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November 14, 2011 - 9:24amhi m 16 yrs old..i got my periods on 9th of novembr 2011....i met my bf on d 3rd n 4th day of my periods..v got physicaly intimate..means v jus kept on smoochin n our ful clothes were TOTALY on us n nothin else hapnd...v both r virgen...he is 17 yrs old...bt today is my 6th day of periods n stil i hve a heavy bleedin...pls tel me wats d prblm....i m vry worried....IS IT NORMAL OR ELSE SUMTHIN IS WRNG WID ME......plzzzzzz help me advice me asap...PLZZZ
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Angie-- Is your period still heavy today?
I can tell you one thing for sure-- the heavy bleeding is not caused by you kissing and getting physically intimate with clothes on. If you are still changing pads every 2-3 hours due to heavy bleeding you may want to schedule an appointment with your gynecologist to determine the cause for your heavy period.
Best of luck,
Rosa
November 15, 2011 - 6:54amThis Comment
no it ws nt dat heavy yetrday......today also it ws a much less....n thnx fr ur reply....thnx alott.....m jus askin whthr dis is hapng coz i got physical wid him....is dat d reson......or nope...????? ny ways thanx once again.....u relivd my tension.....:))
November 15, 2011 - 7:55amThis Comment
Last Tuesday, my boyfriend and I were fooling around. We didn't have sex but at one point he touched the outside of my vagina with his tip. He went in a tiny bit for a few seconds to tease me but that was it. After 20-30 minutes, he came in my mouth. After, his penis rubbed against my vagina by accident. I wiped the outside of me a few minutes later with a wet napkin. My period is a few days late but it has a history of being irregular. What are the chances of me being pregnant?
November 13, 2011 - 10:46pmThis Comment
my boyfriend touched his tip to the opening of my vagina, he barely went in and he didn't cum until a half hour later. could i be pregnant though?
November 13, 2011 - 10:32pmThis Comment
hi am 25 i and my gf had sex!!! i just inserted thru her bum and sperm came out!!! am still confused whether she will pregnant!!!
November 11, 2011 - 7:42amKindly help out!!!
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hi, i am a 22 year old female and i made out with my bf sometime back..we did it without a condom and i did not take any pill what so ever..he did not really come inside..but i still have certain doubts..can you suggest anything that i could do to avoid pregnancy as i have already crosses that `72 hour' time frame..
please help..
November 5, 2011 - 11:22pmThis Comment
wrong date 29th of october i mean
November 5, 2011 - 9:49pmThis Comment