If you have not engaged in sexual intercourse, you are a virgin. It's not about the hymen. Many females who have never engaged in sexual intercourse do not have intact hymens. Some women are born without hymens. As long as you are having your period, even a light one, a change in flow is nothing to be concerned over. If you are engaging in any genital to genital contact, he should be wearing a condom. Accidents can happen. I'm not sure why you are not aroused during your time with your boyfriend. It's a personal thing for women. Maybe try relaxing, touching yourself along with him for more stimulation. Or you might be nervous, fearing pregnancy. Maybe using the condom will ease that fear if that's what it is.
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Dear Anon,
Thank you for your post.
If you have not engaged in sexual intercourse, you are a virgin. It's not about the hymen. Many females who have never engaged in sexual intercourse do not have intact hymens. Some women are born without hymens. As long as you are having your period, even a light one, a change in flow is nothing to be concerned over. If you are engaging in any genital to genital contact, he should be wearing a condom. Accidents can happen. I'm not sure why you are not aroused during your time with your boyfriend. It's a personal thing for women. Maybe try relaxing, touching yourself along with him for more stimulation. Or you might be nervous, fearing pregnancy. Maybe using the condom will ease that fear if that's what it is.
Helena
May 21, 2017 - 5:20amThis Comment
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