Let him go, you and he are not right for each other at all. He can never love you the way you need and deserve to be loved. He lacks the primary characteristic you need to look for in a man: availability. There are many, many fine men in the world, many that you would come to love, but they are not all available to you.
Barak Obama isn't available to you, Brad Pitt isn't available to you, nor the married guy next door, and neither is Neil DeGrasse Tyson, fine men all. Your current boyfriend is not available to you. He is not willing to give himself to you. Don't worry about the ones who aren't available. He's wrong for you, and you are too young to tie yourself into a bad, long term relationship. You can do much better. Aim to make relationships with men who are emotionally and intellectually and socially available to you. Less to worry about. Make a list of the primary characteristics of the man you are looking for and he will be drawn to your side. Begin the list with: Available, emotional and intellectual equal, fun, kind, witty, lighthearted, sexy, adventurous... you can take it from there. Dump this guy, he is not the one.
Don't move in with him. No. Move in with some girlfriends, and share expenses, and date some nice man when you meet one who is available to you.
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Let him go, you and he are not right for each other at all. He can never love you the way you need and deserve to be loved. He lacks the primary characteristic you need to look for in a man: availability. There are many, many fine men in the world, many that you would come to love, but they are not all available to you.
September 4, 2017 - 10:34pmBarak Obama isn't available to you, Brad Pitt isn't available to you, nor the married guy next door, and neither is Neil DeGrasse Tyson, fine men all. Your current boyfriend is not available to you. He is not willing to give himself to you. Don't worry about the ones who aren't available. He's wrong for you, and you are too young to tie yourself into a bad, long term relationship. You can do much better. Aim to make relationships with men who are emotionally and intellectually and socially available to you. Less to worry about. Make a list of the primary characteristics of the man you are looking for and he will be drawn to your side. Begin the list with: Available, emotional and intellectual equal, fun, kind, witty, lighthearted, sexy, adventurous... you can take it from there. Dump this guy, he is not the one.
Don't move in with him. No. Move in with some girlfriends, and share expenses, and date some nice man when you meet one who is available to you.
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