Hello Anonymous,
Your relationship has many issues. There is a 10 year age difference between you and your boyfriend. Your boyfriend has served jail time, lost custody of his children and suffers from depression.
While you are focusing on the lack of sex and intimacy, what is he focusing on? Have you ever thought what he might be feeling? Have you thought what it would be like to be him?
I suggest you seek the intervention of a counselor or therapist. If you and your boyfriend are agreeable, face to face therapy may be the way to work out your intimacy issue.
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Hello Anonymous,
Your relationship has many issues. There is a 10 year age difference between you and your boyfriend. Your boyfriend has served jail time, lost custody of his children and suffers from depression.
While you are focusing on the lack of sex and intimacy, what is he focusing on? Have you ever thought what he might be feeling? Have you thought what it would be like to be him?
I suggest you seek the intervention of a counselor or therapist. If you and your boyfriend are agreeable, face to face therapy may be the way to work out your intimacy issue.
Maryann
July 18, 2012 - 4:25pmThis Comment
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