Hi Anonymous,
Sounds like you have a good relationship with your mom. That's great.
The fluid that came out of your boyfriend's penis is probably pre-ejaculate, or ejaculate--both could contain sperm. If you have penis to vagina contact, you could risk pregnancy. Without his penis penetrating inside, the risk is low, but still there's a risk. If you are not wanting to get pregnant, you may want to look into getting birth control (condoms, spermicide, or get on the birth control pill) to avoid getting pregnant from sexual activity.
In regard to your own discharge, it is normal to have some kind of discharge. For more information, please read these articles, and educate yourself about your sexuality so you can advocate for your own health. Am I Pregnant after Dry Sex, Making Out with Clothes On?, Outercourse, Dry Humping, Dry Sex, and The Misconceptions of Sex. This one also may be good to read: Vaginal Discharge and Cervical Mucus FAQ
Good luck! Let us know how you're doing, and if you have more questions after reading the articles.
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Hi Anonymous,
January 20, 2011 - 8:22amSounds like you have a good relationship with your mom. That's great.
The fluid that came out of your boyfriend's penis is probably pre-ejaculate, or ejaculate--both could contain sperm. If you have penis to vagina contact, you could risk pregnancy. Without his penis penetrating inside, the risk is low, but still there's a risk. If you are not wanting to get pregnant, you may want to look into getting birth control (condoms, spermicide, or get on the birth control pill) to avoid getting pregnant from sexual activity.
In regard to your own discharge, it is normal to have some kind of discharge. For more information, please read these articles, and educate yourself about your sexuality so you can advocate for your own health.
Am I Pregnant after Dry Sex, Making Out with Clothes On?, Outercourse, Dry Humping, Dry Sex, and The Misconceptions of Sex. This one also may be good to read: Vaginal Discharge and Cervical Mucus FAQ
Good luck! Let us know how you're doing, and if you have more questions after reading the articles.
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