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I need help, our marriage is literally dependng on the answer of why are we not having sex. We started out great but after the first 6 months it died and after the wedding...it stopped. I tried dressing up, role play, I begged, I cried asking why he doesn't want me. We have kids but I'm still in great shape and have no problem if I decided to walk...which he tells me to go ahaead and do if that's what makes me happy. I never get a real answer..but he's home at normal times. He doesnt seem interested in the kids anymore. I found out after our marriage he had lied about who he was and his sexual history and all relationships....at 25 I married a virgin who was into anime! This came out when we went for testing for the pregancy between the doctors. It started going to once a month to I don't remember when the last time was...maybe 3 months ago. I don't get it! Now we're over four years like this...I wish he'd just leave us if he's so misserable that he has to act this way...he doesn't even say goodnight, I just notice after a little that he's not around anymore and must have gone to sleep. We sleep in seperate beds..he says its because of the kids but please....where there's a will there's a way, right? My parents and sister think he might be gay and confused...please help, I'm going crazy. (I can't afford to just leave him so a real solution/reason would be great, thanks)