Sweetie, you seem like a very nice girl, and it's plain that living in town so small that you can't talk to anyone without feeling that EVERYONE will know what's going on is a sword with a double edge; on one side, you can't confide in anyone, so you can't get your concerns off your chest without it being public news. On the OTHER side, if the town's THAT small, it's only a matter of a very short time till you can get someone to tell you what's REALLY going on with your boyfriend. And I can almost guarantee that the only reason you don't ALREADY know the truth is because, naturally, you don't WANT to know the obvious; if the two of you are between the ages of 16 and 24, and you've been dating for over six months, but he hasn't shown interest in sex with you, it IS because he's getting it with someone else, I'm sorry, but .... this really is simple human nature.
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Sweetie, you seem like a very nice girl, and it's plain that living in town so small that you can't talk to anyone without feeling that EVERYONE will know what's going on is a sword with a double edge; on one side, you can't confide in anyone, so you can't get your concerns off your chest without it being public news. On the OTHER side, if the town's THAT small, it's only a matter of a very short time till you can get someone to tell you what's REALLY going on with your boyfriend. And I can almost guarantee that the only reason you don't ALREADY know the truth is because, naturally, you don't WANT to know the obvious; if the two of you are between the ages of 16 and 24, and you've been dating for over six months, but he hasn't shown interest in sex with you, it IS because he's getting it with someone else, I'm sorry, but .... this really is simple human nature.
January 6, 2011 - 5:26pmThis Comment
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