I dated my now husband for 3 years before we got married. For the first couple of times we had average sex but it did not work out. he was always too tired for sex most of the times but super energectic for video games/movies etc. We had sex once every 2 weeks or so. I left him after dating him for 2 months because there was no sex in the relationship. During our seperation i met somebody and we had the best chemistry ever and we had sex for 4-5 hours everyday but i did not love him and dont think he did either. Compensation i guess ;). My boyfriend begged me back in his life and i was back with him (loong story) but our sex life did not chnage..once every 2-3 months. we broke up and made up like 5 times and then we got married. he promised to see a therapist after marriage. I thought may be he was low on tetestrone or something. after 6 months of marriage we seeked counselling and he promised he would fix things but he did not!!! it has been 3 years since we have been married and it is has improved to once a month!!!!! (from once in 3 months). After all this i dont even find him attractive.
My advise to all people is: If your SEX life ain't working run for the hills and DONT look back. Even LOVE caanot glue two people together if their sex life is a disaster!!.
Disclaimer: This applies to men who are too conceited to accept that there could be anything wrong with them and in turn ruin other people's lives.
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I dated my now husband for 3 years before we got married. For the first couple of times we had average sex but it did not work out. he was always too tired for sex most of the times but super energectic for video games/movies etc. We had sex once every 2 weeks or so. I left him after dating him for 2 months because there was no sex in the relationship. During our seperation i met somebody and we had the best chemistry ever and we had sex for 4-5 hours everyday but i did not love him and dont think he did either. Compensation i guess ;). My boyfriend begged me back in his life and i was back with him (loong story) but our sex life did not chnage..once every 2-3 months. we broke up and made up like 5 times and then we got married. he promised to see a therapist after marriage. I thought may be he was low on tetestrone or something. after 6 months of marriage we seeked counselling and he promised he would fix things but he did not!!! it has been 3 years since we have been married and it is has improved to once a month!!!!! (from once in 3 months). After all this i dont even find him attractive.
My advise to all people is: If your SEX life ain't working run for the hills and DONT look back. Even LOVE caanot glue two people together if their sex life is a disaster!!.
Disclaimer: This applies to men who are too conceited to accept that there could be anything wrong with them and in turn ruin other people's lives.
November 29, 2010 - 1:58pmThis Comment
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