I agree, communication is key. I have already tried talking to him, i know cheating isn't in his repretuar. I love him and he loves me. I asked him the other night after we did stuff, he said he was holding out because he wanted it to be special on our 3 months. he was a dick all day, treating me the same way he always does, not letting me in on anything. then when he came home we had a fight, and i had to take his friend home. i did, stayed there for 20 min. came home and he had a bubble bath, strawberries, wine, and music, with candles in the bathroom. It was so sweet, and as i changed a song, he decided to whip out the baby oil and rub my back. that night was really special. he knows i have a problem with sex, its my drug i'm addicted to. hes 30 i'm 24 i'm in my prime and he's past it. he says he has trouble's lately and he keeps having nightmares and hes not sleeping well. So now that we've talked it out, i feel a lot better. and as long as i keep him happy i'll be happy, my conclusion is this....If its planned out it isn't fun. and that is how he sees it. I have PTSD and to me sex is like....cake to bigger people. they eat to make themselves feel better. I love him and we're both trying together to get the past figured out. His daughter is visiting for the first time since we've been together, and i haven't seen him happier. Now we just have to get his other daughter here and i bet hes gna be the happiest man alive. and i understand it hurts him because i have my boys 24/7 and he wishes he could have his that way.
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I agree, communication is key. I have already tried talking to him, i know cheating isn't in his repretuar. I love him and he loves me. I asked him the other night after we did stuff, he said he was holding out because he wanted it to be special on our 3 months. he was a dick all day, treating me the same way he always does, not letting me in on anything. then when he came home we had a fight, and i had to take his friend home. i did, stayed there for 20 min. came home and he had a bubble bath, strawberries, wine, and music, with candles in the bathroom. It was so sweet, and as i changed a song, he decided to whip out the baby oil and rub my back. that night was really special. he knows i have a problem with sex, its my drug i'm addicted to. hes 30 i'm 24 i'm in my prime and he's past it. he says he has trouble's lately and he keeps having nightmares and hes not sleeping well. So now that we've talked it out, i feel a lot better. and as long as i keep him happy i'll be happy, my conclusion is this....If its planned out it isn't fun. and that is how he sees it. I have PTSD and to me sex is like....cake to bigger people. they eat to make themselves feel better. I love him and we're both trying together to get the past figured out. His daughter is visiting for the first time since we've been together, and i haven't seen him happier. Now we just have to get his other daughter here and i bet hes gna be the happiest man alive. and i understand it hurts him because i have my boys 24/7 and he wishes he could have his that way.
November 12, 2010 - 11:54amThis Comment
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