My boyfriend has been doing the same thing. We used to have sex more than the average couple, and now that we've been together for about a year, he's got no interest. whenever we do have sex, i have to try really really hard. but for the past month, i'll try to have sex with him, he'll turn me down, then i'll catch him masturbating in the bathroom. i tried to talk to him about it, and he gets really defensive like i'm trying to start an argument with him. so i guess the difference between you and me is that your boyfriend says it isn't your fault. my boyfriend won't even talk about it long enough to give me an answer. i just wish he knew how much it hurts my feelings and how much i take it personally.
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My boyfriend has been doing the same thing. We used to have sex more than the average couple, and now that we've been together for about a year, he's got no interest. whenever we do have sex, i have to try really really hard. but for the past month, i'll try to have sex with him, he'll turn me down, then i'll catch him masturbating in the bathroom. i tried to talk to him about it, and he gets really defensive like i'm trying to start an argument with him. so i guess the difference between you and me is that your boyfriend says it isn't your fault. my boyfriend won't even talk about it long enough to give me an answer. i just wish he knew how much it hurts my feelings and how much i take it personally.
August 28, 2010 - 6:13amThis Comment
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