I am so sorry...this sounds very sad that you have only been physically intimate with your boyfriend just a few times in the last two years. That is a long time.
People have different views of porn use in a relationship, and what actually shocked/concerned me more was not his porn use....but that he has ACTIVE pages on DATING SITES?!
Have you talked with him about this? He does not sound like he is interested in a monogamous relationship with just one person. Are you OK with this? If not, it sounds like you may need to make a decision: be with this person, knowing that he is interested in dating other people, or, end this (unhealthy?!) relationship and meet other men who have similar interests and values as you do. What do you think you deserve in a relationship, and what are you looking for?
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I am so sorry...this sounds very sad that you have only been physically intimate with your boyfriend just a few times in the last two years. That is a long time.
People have different views of porn use in a relationship, and what actually shocked/concerned me more was not his porn use....but that he has ACTIVE pages on DATING SITES?!
Have you talked with him about this? He does not sound like he is interested in a monogamous relationship with just one person. Are you OK with this? If not, it sounds like you may need to make a decision: be with this person, knowing that he is interested in dating other people, or, end this (unhealthy?!) relationship and meet other men who have similar interests and values as you do. What do you think you deserve in a relationship, and what are you looking for?
May 2, 2010 - 1:17pmThis Comment
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