I wish I had an answer for this. I dont. My BF and I have been together for over 5 years and about two years ago he changed in his attitude towards sex. He refuses to have sex but he is into porn. We have had sex 3 times in the last two years. I cant stand it and wish I knew what the problem was. He says its not me .. its him and he gets defensive when I want to talk about it and try to fix whatever the problem is. He hates doctors and wont talk about going to see if that is the problem or not. It turns into a big fight every time and I cry for several days about it because of hurt feelings and low self esteem from the rejection. I didnt think he was cheating but so much time has passed now since this situation started that I think he might be. I know he still has active pages on dating sites. I am to the point I am ready to walk away. Any suggestions?
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I wish I had an answer for this. I dont. My BF and I have been together for over 5 years and about two years ago he changed in his attitude towards sex. He refuses to have sex but he is into porn. We have had sex 3 times in the last two years. I cant stand it and wish I knew what the problem was. He says its not me .. its him and he gets defensive when I want to talk about it and try to fix whatever the problem is. He hates doctors and wont talk about going to see if that is the problem or not. It turns into a big fight every time and I cry for several days about it because of hurt feelings and low self esteem from the rejection. I didnt think he was cheating but so much time has passed now since this situation started that I think he might be. I know he still has active pages on dating sites. I am to the point I am ready to walk away. Any suggestions?
May 1, 2010 - 6:34pmThis Comment
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