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I'm in the same boat as many others. I initially started my relationship knowing that my partner had a hard time having an erection, but I was sympathetic of his situation. After he went off his anti-anxiety meds we simply have stopped having sex as time has gone on. I have confronted the situation numerous times and it just seems to make him more upset and more anxious. Today he finally told me that the more I address the issue the less he wants to have sex with me. I felt like all the air in my lungs was sucked out and I couldn't breathe. All I want is to be held and loved and for him to desire me. I have never had a lack of intimacy in my relationships and this is coming from a man I deeply love. I am well aware that I am attractive and have a lot to offer a partner. Now not only do I feel unloved and unworthy, but I feel like he is punishing me for wanting affection and intimacy. I just want to feel loved. I feel so desperate and ashamed.