you know what im 28 years old and i have the same problem i have been with my bf for 5 years and all of a sudden its like no sex bamm none completly stoped unless i ask and how sucky is that? me a lady has to as him the man for sex? go figure. but its true this does happen i have been throught the what if he is cheating to he has to have alot on his mind to never and i mean never want to have sex with me to maybe its because he is missing his granma that just passed but its been months now and still nothing he always tells me that we are fine he loves me he is still attracted to me because come on after so long what is a woman to do? i had to qsk i still do because nothing changes im not just going to throw myself at him and risk rejection like that it wold crush me bad with the fact that i do have low self esteem and all i wont do that but its been to long going on i want this to end i have told him we need to go to couples therapy and he has agreed so maybe try something like that but wish me luck and i will do he same for you just dont think you are alone im sure we are not the only one on this world wide web that have this huge problem and no i dont think we are stupid to stay....we love em.......right???????? right?
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you know what im 28 years old and i have the same problem i have been with my bf for 5 years and all of a sudden its like no sex bamm none completly stoped unless i ask and how sucky is that? me a lady has to as him the man for sex? go figure. but its true this does happen i have been throught the what if he is cheating to he has to have alot on his mind to never and i mean never want to have sex with me to maybe its because he is missing his granma that just passed but its been months now and still nothing he always tells me that we are fine he loves me he is still attracted to me because come on after so long what is a woman to do? i had to qsk i still do because nothing changes im not just going to throw myself at him and risk rejection like that it wold crush me bad with the fact that i do have low self esteem and all i wont do that but its been to long going on i want this to end i have told him we need to go to couples therapy and he has agreed so maybe try something like that but wish me luck and i will do he same for you just dont think you are alone im sure we are not the only one on this world wide web that have this huge problem and no i dont think we are stupid to stay....we love em.......right???????? right?
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