oh good...I was hoping I was not too blunt with my answer! He really may have some self-image issues, he really may be tired from school and work...there could be a million reasons.
The best approach depends on what the cause of his not-wanting-sex is. Honestly, if he's tired...the best approach may be doing his laundry (LOL...but helping him with chores or dinner or something...what would you want him to do for you if you were exhausted and not interested in "giving" physically to another person?). Another approach is to be kind and a good listener; ask how he is doing, what you can do to help. Ask him if he wants a foot rub or massage. Does he need time alone? Do you hold his hands and tell him how cute you think he is...without expecting anything in return?
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oh good...I was hoping I was not too blunt with my answer! He really may have some self-image issues, he really may be tired from school and work...there could be a million reasons.
The best approach depends on what the cause of his not-wanting-sex is. Honestly, if he's tired...the best approach may be doing his laundry (LOL...but helping him with chores or dinner or something...what would you want him to do for you if you were exhausted and not interested in "giving" physically to another person?). Another approach is to be kind and a good listener; ask how he is doing, what you can do to help. Ask him if he wants a foot rub or massage. Does he need time alone? Do you hold his hands and tell him how cute you think he is...without expecting anything in return?
Just some ideas...you know him best!
March 14, 2010 - 7:05pmThis Comment
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