men are not evil, and women do as bad or worse things to men emotionally; it just doesn't get as much publicity because men are socially stigmatized when they admit that a woman managed to break their heart. Especially they don't want to admit to anyone that a woman left them, or preferred another man to them, it's like pouring barbeque sauce all over your body and jumping into the lion's den, the other guys will eat you alive. So women, get over yourselves, and if you want him, tell him so. Act like it. Seduce him, show him. Don't expect him to read your mind, because he can't. But if you tell him what you want, and he doesn't want to give it to you, then that should be a reasonable sign. All this BS about what he might or might not want, is nonsense. Just ask him. If he's being honest, you'll know, and you can work things out. If he refuses to be honest (deliberate lying), then no matter what you do, the relationship is doomed.
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men are not evil, and women do as bad or worse things to men emotionally; it just doesn't get as much publicity because men are socially stigmatized when they admit that a woman managed to break their heart. Especially they don't want to admit to anyone that a woman left them, or preferred another man to them, it's like pouring barbeque sauce all over your body and jumping into the lion's den, the other guys will eat you alive. So women, get over yourselves, and if you want him, tell him so. Act like it. Seduce him, show him. Don't expect him to read your mind, because he can't. But if you tell him what you want, and he doesn't want to give it to you, then that should be a reasonable sign. All this BS about what he might or might not want, is nonsense. Just ask him. If he's being honest, you'll know, and you can work things out. If he refuses to be honest (deliberate lying), then no matter what you do, the relationship is doomed.
December 23, 2009 - 1:20pmThis Comment
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