The same thing is going on with me! I am 26 and my boyfriend is 23. We've been together for over a year and we never fight. We get along and are very happy. For the first couple of months we had sex 1-5 times a day. Then it slowly went to once or twice a month. I asked him whats wrong and he said nothing. He told me he is very contempt and happy and doesnt need sex to fill the void he used to have. He views sex as a degrading thing to women. He also told me that he doesnt want to degrade me because this is how he felt when he had sex with previous girls he didnt care for. This could be what is happening to you! It is also happening to my married friend. I also learned that my boyfriend was molested when he was 5 and again when he was 8. This may be why he views sex as degrading. I have learned to deal with the lack of sex. And when he is ready to go to a counsler we will go. Its sad at times, but sex is not everything. Other than that we have a great relationship.
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The same thing is going on with me! I am 26 and my boyfriend is 23. We've been together for over a year and we never fight. We get along and are very happy. For the first couple of months we had sex 1-5 times a day. Then it slowly went to once or twice a month. I asked him whats wrong and he said nothing. He told me he is very contempt and happy and doesnt need sex to fill the void he used to have. He views sex as a degrading thing to women. He also told me that he doesnt want to degrade me because this is how he felt when he had sex with previous girls he didnt care for. This could be what is happening to you! It is also happening to my married friend. I also learned that my boyfriend was molested when he was 5 and again when he was 8. This may be why he views sex as degrading. I have learned to deal with the lack of sex. And when he is ready to go to a counsler we will go. Its sad at times, but sex is not everything. Other than that we have a great relationship.
November 22, 2009 - 8:00pmThis Comment
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