I am going through the same thing. My bf and I were together for 4 months in the same city, then he had to move to finish school in a diff country. We were long distance for 1.5 years, but got to see each other every 3 months for approx 2 weeks. Had great sex both in the 4 months and during our holidays together. I finally decided to make a move to be with him and now we have lived together for 5 months and have sex maybe twice a month... if that much, and I do have to seduce him... it's literally the only way. I haven't spoken to him about it because I keep hoping the problem will fix itself. I love him so much, but I'm not ready to give up on a passionate love life. I don't want to break up with him, but I can't stay in this relationship... I don't know how to fix it. I feel so very confused, dissapointed, hurt, rejected, unimportant and will need to take action soon. I just don't know exactly what yet.
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I am going through the same thing. My bf and I were together for 4 months in the same city, then he had to move to finish school in a diff country. We were long distance for 1.5 years, but got to see each other every 3 months for approx 2 weeks. Had great sex both in the 4 months and during our holidays together. I finally decided to make a move to be with him and now we have lived together for 5 months and have sex maybe twice a month... if that much, and I do have to seduce him... it's literally the only way. I haven't spoken to him about it because I keep hoping the problem will fix itself. I love him so much, but I'm not ready to give up on a passionate love life. I don't want to break up with him, but I can't stay in this relationship... I don't know how to fix it. I feel so very confused, dissapointed, hurt, rejected, unimportant and will need to take action soon. I just don't know exactly what yet.
October 17, 2009 - 2:10amThis Comment
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