I know it is hard but keep your head in the game so to speak. Me and my boyfriend of 3 years went threw the same thing. When we started dating it was a long distance relationship and when we were together it was 2-3 times a day. Then when we moved in together it was at least everynight, then we had a talk about it and it was too much for him, with work and kids much to my relief it wasn't me as I am sure it isn't you either men are odd and won't talk unless spoken to when it comes to these thing. So we talked about it and decided on every other day which isn't bad and sometimes it may go a week until we do it. I guess what I am trying to say is, things change people change and we change the thing to do in the relationship world is to change with them. Talk it out, communication is huge and trust is even more important. If he doesn't want to talk don't push it, and let him think it is on his terms, but get everything you want to say out when you are both ready. Good luck, and remember what started your spark and keep the flame going
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I know it is hard but keep your head in the game so to speak. Me and my boyfriend of 3 years went threw the same thing. When we started dating it was a long distance relationship and when we were together it was 2-3 times a day. Then when we moved in together it was at least everynight, then we had a talk about it and it was too much for him, with work and kids much to my relief it wasn't me as I am sure it isn't you either men are odd and won't talk unless spoken to when it comes to these thing. So we talked about it and decided on every other day which isn't bad and sometimes it may go a week until we do it. I guess what I am trying to say is, things change people change and we change the thing to do in the relationship world is to change with them. Talk it out, communication is huge and trust is even more important. If he doesn't want to talk don't push it, and let him think it is on his terms, but get everything you want to say out when you are both ready. Good luck, and remember what started your spark and keep the flame going
October 11, 2009 - 8:44amThis Comment
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