Ok guys - first im a male. This is happening in my relationship where i just dont want to anymore. I read these posts to see what goes through a womans head in these situations. I feel sorry for all of you. I can only tell you what happens with me, if its similar to your situation then you can have some answers maybe. Ok you will all hate me but im going to be brutally honest. Yes it is probably you. Relationships naturally die down in my opinion, but if it was hot and heavy down to once in a couple of months, thats not a die down thats more like extinct. Now economic/financial pressures and stress and long hours can very well be the cause before I go further. To test go on vacation and see what happens, if nothing then you know its not the stress but something else. Now if he still looks at other woman (which is very normal for guys to do) then his equiptment probably still works fine and its it may be something about you. If he has no interest and doesnt check out a cute girl walking past then its probably him. Ask yourself if you have changed since when you two met. Has your personality changed, are you more short tempered with your man. And the big reason (which is my case) have you put on some weight? My girl has now put on 40 pounds since we first met, to the point were i just cant do it anymore, the little guy just wont wake up. If your only getting it on your birthday and special occasions (and if he more often than not has to be drunk to do it) then it is something about you. He will never admit this to you no matter how many times you ask. If he's like me he probably still loves you very much and wants it himself. Either that or he's cheating on you in which case your relationship is all but over. Now can someone help me and tell me how to convince her to lose a few pounds. I want the girl that I met back, she's the only one I ever wanted. Because I know that soon I will give up and not care myself, in which case we will both end up fat slobs with no sex life or chance of one, and thats just depressing. By reading your posts, you have given so many examples which are exactly what we are facing - exactly, so I am assuming its probably for a similar reason. Anyway I guess what I'm trying to say is that the answer is within you. You know what it is but are maybe afraid to admit it to yourself. That thing your most scared of - well thats your answer. I hope this helps - please dont send hate mail to me.
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Ok guys - first im a male. This is happening in my relationship where i just dont want to anymore. I read these posts to see what goes through a womans head in these situations. I feel sorry for all of you. I can only tell you what happens with me, if its similar to your situation then you can have some answers maybe. Ok you will all hate me but im going to be brutally honest. Yes it is probably you. Relationships naturally die down in my opinion, but if it was hot and heavy down to once in a couple of months, thats not a die down thats more like extinct. Now economic/financial pressures and stress and long hours can very well be the cause before I go further. To test go on vacation and see what happens, if nothing then you know its not the stress but something else. Now if he still looks at other woman (which is very normal for guys to do) then his equiptment probably still works fine and its it may be something about you. If he has no interest and doesnt check out a cute girl walking past then its probably him. Ask yourself if you have changed since when you two met. Has your personality changed, are you more short tempered with your man. And the big reason (which is my case) have you put on some weight? My girl has now put on 40 pounds since we first met, to the point were i just cant do it anymore, the little guy just wont wake up. If your only getting it on your birthday and special occasions (and if he more often than not has to be drunk to do it) then it is something about you. He will never admit this to you no matter how many times you ask. If he's like me he probably still loves you very much and wants it himself. Either that or he's cheating on you in which case your relationship is all but over. Now can someone help me and tell me how to convince her to lose a few pounds. I want the girl that I met back, she's the only one I ever wanted. Because I know that soon I will give up and not care myself, in which case we will both end up fat slobs with no sex life or chance of one, and thats just depressing. By reading your posts, you have given so many examples which are exactly what we are facing - exactly, so I am assuming its probably for a similar reason. Anyway I guess what I'm trying to say is that the answer is within you. You know what it is but are maybe afraid to admit it to yourself. That thing your most scared of - well thats your answer. I hope this helps - please dont send hate mail to me.
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