lADIES, LADIES......I am a healthy 29 year old male, i don't do drug's, i drink casually and i am usually fairly happy( maybe a little cynical at times) and due to the amount of stress i am under, my lack of exercise, and or my diet, i have no desire to have sex for week's!
(I masturbate, but that really doesn't take too much energy,lol.)
I find my girl attractive, we get along good, and we have the same goals, and there is chemistry between us, but sometimes i just don't feel like having sex.
I think the problem is that Guy's tend to "carry the world" on their shoulders, we feel like we have to fix everything and that there is always a job to do, and personally speaking, work never ends!!.
Everyday, i feed the animals, clean the house, do online work, handle every important call that we need to make, conduct all of the business, cook every meal,and help her with her computer and carry all the heavy stuff, plus i fix things, i work on her car, i take care of her cat's, i give her advice....And this is aside from my paying job!!!!
i work my ass off for this girl!! and she get's upset if i don't want to do anymore "work"
I will admit that she is a "daddy's girl" to the max!
that guy bails her out of everything and everywhere, if she runs out of gas, she call's him, if she need's money, she call's him, new computer? call dad, new car part's? call dad!!!!!
Is that you as well?
she is accustomed to getting everything she want's, and i feel like she has no real appreciation for what she does get or have.
I was homeless, in foster homes, single parent, bastard child of a stripper and an illegal Mexican, and maybe i was dealt a bad hand, but i grew to appreciate life, and everything i receive and work for.
I work hard, i never give up and i am always forging ahead.....
i guess What i am trying to say is..
My head hurt's and I'm tired... i just want to put my hand under your butt and fall asleep. lol.
It's not always about you.
I don't know all the answers and i never will. hell, I'm still growing up but i hope that in some weird and roundabout way i was able to add a little male perspective to this topic.
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lADIES, LADIES......I am a healthy 29 year old male, i don't do drug's, i drink casually and i am usually fairly happy( maybe a little cynical at times) and due to the amount of stress i am under, my lack of exercise, and or my diet, i have no desire to have sex for week's!
(I masturbate, but that really doesn't take too much energy,lol.)
I find my girl attractive, we get along good, and we have the same goals, and there is chemistry between us, but sometimes i just don't feel like having sex.
I think the problem is that Guy's tend to "carry the world" on their shoulders, we feel like we have to fix everything and that there is always a job to do, and personally speaking, work never ends!!.
Everyday, i feed the animals, clean the house, do online work, handle every important call that we need to make, conduct all of the business, cook every meal,and help her with her computer and carry all the heavy stuff, plus i fix things, i work on her car, i take care of her cat's, i give her advice....And this is aside from my paying job!!!!
i work my ass off for this girl!! and she get's upset if i don't want to do anymore "work"
I will admit that she is a "daddy's girl" to the max!
that guy bails her out of everything and everywhere, if she runs out of gas, she call's him, if she need's money, she call's him, new computer? call dad, new car part's? call dad!!!!!
Is that you as well?
she is accustomed to getting everything she want's, and i feel like she has no real appreciation for what she does get or have.
I was homeless, in foster homes, single parent, bastard child of a stripper and an illegal Mexican, and maybe i was dealt a bad hand, but i grew to appreciate life, and everything i receive and work for.
I work hard, i never give up and i am always forging ahead.....
i guess What i am trying to say is..
My head hurt's and I'm tired... i just want to put my hand under your butt and fall asleep. lol.
It's not always about you.
I don't know all the answers and i never will. hell, I'm still growing up but i hope that in some weird and roundabout way i was able to add a little male perspective to this topic.
September 20, 2009 - 10:24amThis Comment
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