I personally think it's an insecurity thing with the man. The guy does not feel good about himself, or his body image, whatever, and he is inhibited. He feels bad by being put on the spot by you, because sex hardly happens between you too unless you initiate. So to me, it's as plain as day. When he drinks, he loses his inhibition, therefore that's the only time he would initiate sex with you.
I think that is what a lot of the problem with the men are. For some reason, when you are both new, there is less inhibition because it's new; you're new, your bodies are something new to explore. But once it gets old, the inhibitions and self-doubts creeps in, real life and problems creeps in. When you are new in the relationship you are still in the euphoria stage. Without so much of that now, sex is a little scarier.
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I personally think it's an insecurity thing with the man. The guy does not feel good about himself, or his body image, whatever, and he is inhibited. He feels bad by being put on the spot by you, because sex hardly happens between you too unless you initiate. So to me, it's as plain as day. When he drinks, he loses his inhibition, therefore that's the only time he would initiate sex with you.
I think that is what a lot of the problem with the men are. For some reason, when you are both new, there is less inhibition because it's new; you're new, your bodies are something new to explore. But once it gets old, the inhibitions and self-doubts creeps in, real life and problems creeps in. When you are new in the relationship you are still in the euphoria stage. Without so much of that now, sex is a little scarier.
August 17, 2009 - 10:26pmThis Comment
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