I am truly sorry that you have felt unsupported during your illness and it sounds like you are justified in feeling that way but I am really offended at your "I have no time for caregivers comment and in sickness and in health comment. you sound like you have issues in your marriage that may have been highlighted by your illness but pre date your illness.
I am married to an abusive jerk who enjoys making me feel small. he has a chronic illness and whether you believe me or not I have cared for him and loved him through all his challenges. I left a job I love and family and friends to move to a climate he felt would be better for him. I am alone and isolated. I have sat nights in er and in hospitals I. have researched diets I have done everything I can think of for him and he treats me like a servant.
I left him a month ago.....I guess I am horrible. last year I found a lump in my breast. I went to all my appointments and biopsy alone. I heard the word cancer diagnosed alone....my husband said he didn't have the energy for me. last month I finished my last chemo and rang the all finished Bell in the clinic alone. then I called a lawyer.
lover and marriage and sickness and health is a two way street.
thanks for the judgement. I have enough guilt for giving up. your post made me cry.....thanks
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I am truly sorry that you have felt unsupported during your illness and it sounds like you are justified in feeling that way but I am really offended at your "I have no time for caregivers comment and in sickness and in health comment. you sound like you have issues in your marriage that may have been highlighted by your illness but pre date your illness.
March 12, 2017 - 1:10pmI am married to an abusive jerk who enjoys making me feel small. he has a chronic illness and whether you believe me or not I have cared for him and loved him through all his challenges. I left a job I love and family and friends to move to a climate he felt would be better for him. I am alone and isolated. I have sat nights in er and in hospitals I. have researched diets I have done everything I can think of for him and he treats me like a servant.
I left him a month ago.....I guess I am horrible. last year I found a lump in my breast. I went to all my appointments and biopsy alone. I heard the word cancer diagnosed alone....my husband said he didn't have the energy for me. last month I finished my last chemo and rang the all finished Bell in the clinic alone. then I called a lawyer.
lover and marriage and sickness and health is a two way street.
thanks for the judgement. I have enough guilt for giving up. your post made me cry.....thanks
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