Talk to the hospital social workers and Chaplin. My husband was very angry at me during his cancer but I stood up for myself. I told him I am doing everything I can to help but will not take abuse from him. I let him know I will have to leave if it gets ridiculously hard on me. We got wonderful help from support groups and the Chaplin. See if he will go.
They are really angry at the cancer and their life situation, but dont know how to deal with it. You are his lighting rod. Tell can your family and friends how it is for you...You dont have to talk about your thoughts on leaving at this point, but you do need them now or at least be able to talk about...Many friends may just say they will send prayers so go to a group that know what you are dealing with too.
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Talk to the hospital social workers and Chaplin. My husband was very angry at me during his cancer but I stood up for myself. I told him I am doing everything I can to help but will not take abuse from him. I let him know I will have to leave if it gets ridiculously hard on me. We got wonderful help from support groups and the Chaplin. See if he will go.
They are really angry at the cancer and their life situation, but dont know how to deal with it. You are his lighting rod. Tell can your family and friends how it is for you...You dont have to talk about your thoughts on leaving at this point, but you do need them now or at least be able to talk about...Many friends may just say they will send prayers so go to a group that know what you are dealing with too.
November 12, 2014 - 2:29amThis Comment
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